married man going home....

when i was single or not married, going home from office was just a normal routine. it was just a short breakaway from the tension atmosphere at the office. i had to buy my own meal on the way back or, sometimes, i bought myself something which i could easily cook at my apartment, usually something simple and instant. nothing pricey or special. save money maa to get married.

once i reached my place, i would park my old car, took my jaded briefcase and walked straight to my old apartment unit which i shared with a few good friends. i went directly to my small room and took off my office attire and put on my towel. after that i would go to the living room, said ‘hi’ to whoever there, then i’d sat on my favorite sofa and watched my favorite astro channels i.e. “ESPN” and “Discovery” till midnight. i think that was special and memorable. something i would normally do in a quiet but relax way. you know ‘loosen up’. during that moment in time, i hated when someone called or bothered me. i considered that as my private single-life moment. every now and then, i miss that moment actually.

but those are history. now different already.

now i look forward to go home after office hour. just to see my wife, to laugh with my wife, to eat her delicious cooking, to spend time with her, to argue with her or to whatever with her. now i watch my favorite astro channels with her. i don’t sit on sofa anymore coz i have king size bed to watch astro. more special maa….

but one thing never changes. i still hate when someone call or bother me at those special moment. i consider that as my new private moment. i don’t know why but i really enjoy my evening with my wife. hope it will last forever. insyaallah.